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Embrace the Unknown: Navigating Change with Confidence

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I've been off the radar with my blog but for great reasons! I created an entirely new website, launched my very first book, welcomed a baby into the world, and have been navigating the incredible journey of raising my little man as a first-time single mum.


It's been a whirlwind, and I'm figuring it all out as I go. In the midst of everything, I completely forgot to shout out, "Check out my new website!" I also totally overlooked my blog. After launching 'Looking Forward, Looking Back,' it became the sole piece of writing I had the energy to promote.


So yesterday, I decided to take a little detour and clicked on my blog section—talk about a wild ride! To my surprise (well, not really, because the law of attraction says, "Set it and forget it," and I can thank my baby brain for that one. Seriously, I can barely remember where I put my phone half the time).


Anyway, I discovered that my tiny collection of blog posts has racked up a whopping 1,555 views since I started a little over a year ago. That's right, folks—1,555! Thank you, angels, for those views! Or was it just my mum refreshing the page 1,554 times? Who’s counting, right?


So, wow, I am absolutely thrilled to have you all here—reading, engaging, and sharing in my journey! Your support means everything to me, and knowing these posts resonate with so many of you is incredibly fulfilling!


Writing these blogs has been such a wonderful way to reflect, connect, and remind myself (and hopefully you) that we’re all navigating life’s twists and turns together! (spoiler alert, there's much more to tell).


This past year has been about so much more than growth—it’s been about embracing uncertainty and finding strength in the chaos. From launching  Looking Forward, Looking Back to adjusting to the profound shift of motherhood, every moment has taught me even more about resilience and surrender. It's not about having all the answers—it’s about moving forward even when the path is unclear.


Venturing into the unknown can be daunting yet exhilarating—it challenges us to step outside our comfort zones and embrace growth. Through uncertainty, we open ourselves to new experiences, and by trusting ourselves, staying adaptable, and surrounding ourselves with support, it allows us to "build character."


Adjusting to the reality of impending motherhood was equal parts exhilarating and daunting. Society paints a certain picture of what motherhood should look like—effortless, joyful, and picture-perfect. But behind the scenes, I wrestled with questions about my identity, aspirations, and how I’d balance it all. Would I still be the driven entrepreneur I’d worked so hard to become? Would I be the kind of mother I wanted to be? Could I be both?


In moments of doubt, I leaned into resilience. Yes, here we are again, my trusty companion Resilience and I, just trying to hold it all together. Resilience isn't about having all the solutions; it's about finding ways to keep moving forward, even when the path ahead resembles a toddler's drawing.


I’ve learned to navigate the messiness of life, celebrate small victories, and embrace the uncertainty, trusting that I will find my footing. It’s not about having all the answers; it’s about moving forward and trusting the process.


As I continue on this journey, I’m reminded that change is inevitable, but it also brings opportunity. Each challenge offers a chance to grow, adapt, and become more than before. The beauty of change lies in embracing it, rather than trying to control it.


Here are some key aspects to consider when embracing the unknown:

  • Confidence: Trusting in your abilities and judgment can empower you to face the unknown with a positive mindset.

  • Acceptance: Acknowledge that uncertainty is a natural part of life. Accepting this can alleviate anxiety and foster resilience.

  • Curiosity: Cultivate a sense of wonder about what lies ahead. Approach the unknown with an open mind, ready to explore and learn.

  • Adaptability: Develop the ability to adjust to new situations. Flexibility allows us to navigate challenges and seize unexpected opportunities.

  • Growth Mindset: View the unknown as a chance for personal and professional development. Embrace challenges as stepping stones to achieving your goals.

  • Support Systems: Surround yourself with a network of supportive individuals. Sharing experiences and insights can provide comfort and guidance as you navigate uncertainty.


Ultimately, embracing the unknown can lead to profound discoveries about ourselves and the world around us. It is through these experiences that we often find our greatest strengths and passions.

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For me, that meant creating space for reflection, surrounding myself with supportive voices, and giving myself permission to feel everything—the joy, the fear, and even the doubt.


Throughout this journey, I've gained a lot of insight, as my therapist recently mentioned, "none of these experiences would have happened without Hunter." And let me tell you, you’ll want to stay tuned because the life I’ll be living in 2025 is going to be incredibly epic, filled with adventure and a further departure from the mainstream.


My best advice for you in 2025:

  1. Embrace the Unknown: Life rarely goes according to plan. Embrace the unknown, and you'll discover strength you never knew you had.

  2. Let Go of Perfection: It's alright if things don't turn out as you imagined. What matters is progress, not perfection.

  3. Trust Yourself: No one knows your journey better than you do. Trust your instincts, even when the path seems uncertain.


If someone had told me five years ago that I'd be where I am today, I would've thought they were completely nuts! But hey, it turns out the bigger it gets, the better it gets! I'm just cruising down the path of least resistance, heading straight for my ultimate dreams, goals, and desires. The big goal for 2025? To be booked to talk on stage—no pressure, just a little dream of mine!


This past year has been a rollercoaster of change, growth, and self-discovery. It hasn’t always been easy, but it’s taught me soooo much about the power of embracing the unknown.


As I prepare to share my next blog—Hunter’s birth story—I invite you to continue on this journey with me. It’s a deeply personal story, and I hope it will resonate with anyone who’s faced unexpected challenges in their own lives.


But that's not all! I have some exciting travels lined up, and I can't wait to share them with you. This year, I'll be unveiling a very cool adventure that will inspire you to dream bigger, let go of society's expectations, and truly create a life of freedom (whatever that means to you).


What’s Coming Next

Get ready for a year filled with exciting adventures and valuable insights. Here’s what you can look forward to:

  • Adventures with Hunter: I’ll be sharing stories of our upcoming journeys, showcasing the joys and challenges of exploring the world together.

  • Stories of Reinvention and Resilience: Inspiring tales that remind you it’s never too late to rewrite your story and embrace your journey with courage and confidence.

  • Opportunities to Learn and Grow: Whether through the blog, social media, or joining The Uplevel Academy, you’ll gain actionable tips, insights, and inspiration to help you on your own path to success.



My blog is your go-to resource for in-depth articles, personal stories, and tools to navigate life’s challenges. Together, we’ll dive deeper into the themes we explore on the podcast and beyond.


You’ll also have the chance to learn directly from me through workshops, Q&A sessions, and curated resources, tailored to help you discover new paths to freedom, growth, and adventure.


I Want to Hear From You

What stories or topics resonate most with you? Share your thoughts—I’d love to know how I can support you on your journey.



Let’s Begin Today

Don't hesitate to move forward with your dreams. 📚 Get your copy of Looking Forward, Looking Back now, and embark on your transformative journey toward freedom, resilience, and adventure. Don't just take my word for it; read the latest review.





Reminder...

To everyone navigating your unique path: embrace change, trust the process, and never forget your incredible strength. Let’s continue sharing, supporting, and growing together. The future is exciting! 💖 - Holly



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